Quando suona la tromba

It’s Monday morning here in Lake Worth. I’ve taken the day off from work to bind books and to get started on taxes. The day started bright and sunny, but just now, a heavy downpour is falling from the sky, falling on the roof, falling all around me, falling on the streets of Downtown Lake Worth, where this past weekend it was our annual Street Painting Festival. It is the largest street painting festival in the country, and this year was our 24th annual. At the information booth that was smack in the middle of Lucerne Avenue, closed to traffic for the weekend, was a board of FAQs. The first one: “What happens if it rains?” The answer: “The paintings get wet.”

It is a beautiful lesson in the ephemeral nature of things, the Lake Worth Street Painting Festival. Each year we have all this beauty bestowed upon us by artists painting with chalk on our streets, and once the festival is over, the roads are reopened to traffic, and of course you never know when the first rain will come, but it always does. Sometimes very quickly, or sometimes more gradually, all of it––the chalk transformed into paintings––it all vanishes.

We spent Saturday afternoon, my mom and sister and Seth and I, saying good bye to an old family friend at a funeral that was attended by hundreds and maybe thousands of people. I could not tell. All I know is Father Alonso’s funeral was standing room only at what used to be our neighborhood church when we lived in Lighthouse Point, Florida. We stood against the stained glass windows and even my mom, 91 years old, stood through the whole thing. The crowds were a testament to how loved this man was. My grandma loved him because Father Alonso, who was sent to the States by his Piarist mission in Spain, spoke so slowly. One day she went up to him and told him, in her broken English, “I like you. You, I understand. The others, they talk too fast.” He loved calling her by her name, Assunta, a name he understood, too, because Italian and Spanish are so similar. He knew she was named for the Feast of the Assumption. After Grandma died in 1987, Father Alonso began calling my mother Assunta, just because. Even to the last time we saw him, when he made a special trip to see us at my father’s wake last year, he came into the room and saw my mother and said, “Assunta.” He was the kindest man. He did not judge. He radiated joy and compassion and would hold his hands out when he saw you, always welcoming.

He called the boys chicos and the girls chicas and he told them all to be nice to the Old Man, which was him, even decades ago when he certainly was not an old man. He was barely an old man when he died last week; only 77. We learnt at his funeral from his fellow Piarists that Father Alonso would have celebrated 50 years in the priesthood, but wanted nothing to do with any celebration of that fact, for it did not matter to him, and he did not want to call attention to it. He lived humbly. As it turns out, he went to sleep the night before that golden jubilee day and died peacefully in his sleep. We kept hearing at the funeral that God’s ways are not our ways and when it came to Father Alonso, this was certainly true. He was so many things to so many people, and this was clear by the vast number of us celebrating his life… which is exactly what Saturday felt like to all of us, no matter if we spoke Spanish or English (or, if my Grandma had been there, a mix of Italian and the language of our adopted country).

When I lived with my family in the old family homestead, our neighbor was a retired New York cop, also of Italian descent, named Tony. Tony was loud and animated and he had a saying that no doubt reflected his experience growing up in a home with Italian immigrants, for part of it was in Italian and part in English: “Quando suona la trumpet,” he would say, as he picked his arms up to the sky. Proper Italian would be Quando suona la tromba… basically, “When the trumpet sounds…” When the trumpet sounds, that’s it, it’s our time to go. I thought about that a lot this past week whenever I thought of Father Alonso, who left us too quickly, and I thought about it this morning when the rain began falling in Lake Worth. I think about it when I am mowing the lawn at my family’s home, because I always think of my Dad when I am doing that task that we so often did together, and I think of Tony sometimes, too, because that’s usually when Dad and I would see Tony, out puttering about his yard, too. The best we can do is to do the best we can: paint good paintings, tell good stories, be kind to each other. It’s all ephemeral, but we do it anyway.


19 thoughts on “Quando suona la tromba

  1. Paula Marie Gourley says:

    Written on the wind and raindrops,
    the sky washing pigments
    made of earth and stone.
    Dust to dust,
    and a liquid helper,
    tears of joy and sadness.
    We stand and watch
    and feel the colors of our lives,

  2. Monica says:

    I am sorry I missed the paintings!

    Thank you for this lovely, well I’ll call it a…meditation for today. I was just talking to a friend about people work so hard to try to live longer when they don’t appreciate the life they already have. Its temporality makes it precious.

    You have such wonderful memories- thank you for sharing. Happy bookbinding!

    • John Cutrone says:

      There’s an artists’ book in the Jaffe Collection called “Pharmacy of Crippling Home” by Jessica Poor. It’s a prescription bottle filled with capsules that contain the printed pages of the book. On the bottle is a warning label, just like regular Rx bottles often have. It reads, “WARNING: The pleasure of what time we have in life is wasted by wanting more.”

      Thank you, Monica. The bookbinding went well, but I ran out of Fabriano Roma paper in blue, and it appears the Fabriano mill stopped making tinted papers!

  3. Carol Sprinkle says:

    I really enjoyed reading this lovely piece.
    Thank you.

  4. Guy Icangelo says:

    One of your best, John.

  5. Lara L James says:

    That was really beautiful. It isn’t raining in Kissimmee, but these reflections on the ephemeral quality of things will be something to remember whether it is or isn’t. I believe God does miracles through the epheral, and makes those things-and loved ones- live on. We can squander our love, time, possessions, because somewhere, somehow, they are building up love. Thank you for sharing your life with us. Even that, putting words to paper or screen is an act of faith, that these things matter. They do.

  6. Robin Price says:

    Yes, yes. Thank you very much, John, for this beauty in my day. I also love hearing about Jessica Poor’s work.

  7. Eric Bush says:

    That was a beautiful way to surmise a kindly human being’s time moving through this plane of existence. Seems the ripples Father Oscar Alonso, your Grandmother, Tony and your own Father have made in this life will go on for some time to come.

  8. Carl Mario Nudi says:

    Thank you, John, for sharing your thoughts on life. It has made me stop and think, which today seems like a luxury.
    Peace and happy bookbinding.

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