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St. Stephen’s Day

Frühstück mit Trauben, Nüssen, Kastanien und Brot

FIRST DAY of CHRISTMAS:
St. Stephen’s Day, Boxing Day, Day of the Wren

Christmas Eve ushers in Christmas Day, and now Christmas Day is past and we enter into the Twelve Days of Christmas, days that stand outside of ordinary time. This is Christmastide, or Yuletide, and there is a delightful dance between the newer Christian religion and the older Pagan one that make up the ceremonies of this period. The Twelve Days of Christmas will take us to the Feast of the Epiphany on the sixth day of January, though you will meet people who consider the Christmas season to run through to February 2, the next cross quarter day, which is halfway between the Winter Solstice, which has just passed, and the Spring Equinox. We mark the Second of February here in the States as Groundhog Day, but it is known also by its traditional name as Candlemas or by its even more traditional name: Imbolc.

But I’m getting far ahead of myself. The point is Christmas has just begun. Christmas exists on its own as Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, and today, December 26, is counted as the First Day of Christmas. On this day we celebrate St. Stephen, the first Christian martyr. Being the first to die for his faith (about 34 AD), the Church gave Stephen the first saint’s day after Christmas Day. There is a second St. Stephen who came many years later. This St. Stephen is associated with animals, and particularly horses, and so the First Day of Christmas is a good day to honor animals.

In earlier times St. Stephen’s Day was celebrated by hunting a wren and parading the wren’s corpse through the village. There are some places where this still takes place, especially in Ireland, but it is most often a fake wren that is paraded through town now. Traditionally, though, the day does not go well for wrens. The story goes that it was a wren who betrayed St. Stephen: Stephen had been captured and was about to make his escape when a wren began squawking, awakening the guards who were supposed to be watching him. Wrens have since been considered very unlucky… hence the Day of the Wren. Today’s village parades in Ireland and elsewhere will be attended by wrenboys in bright costumes and strange conical straw hats.

And finally it is Boxing Day today, as well, a British tradition in which gift boxes are given to servants and workers by their employers. Most servants had to work on Christmas Day to help make the day as merry as could be for the families that employed them. But the day after Christmas was usually their day off to spend with their own families. Their employers would send them off with a box containing gifts for themselves and the families they’d go home to.

In Italy, St. Stephen’s Day and the day that follows, St. John’s Day, calls for mulled wine and roasted chestnuts. This is the tradition we like best for this First Day of Christmas.

Image: Frühstück mit Trauben, Nüssen, Kastanien und Brot by Georg Flegel. Oil on oak panel, c.1638. [Public domain via Wikimedia Commons.]  The chestnuts are the “kastanien;” “castagne” in Italian.

 

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Now It Is Christmas Again

Glade Jul

And now it is Christmas again. There is an old Swedish Christmas carol, “Nu är Det Jul Igen,” that says just this, and you can count on Swedes around the globe to be singing this very carol this very night. It is usually sung while dancing around the Christmas tree. The song, the dance, the tree aglow in the night… all of these things point toward the fact that this night is not like other nights: This is a night charged with magic. This is something we know deep in our bones. We know it from the time we are little children and we know it when we are old. Christmas Eve offers us a free ride back to that childhood, just a brief visit. We either hop aboard or we do not, but the offer is there.

Christmas has a lot of pressure put upon it. As magical nights go, this is the one most of us connect to. But it’s hard work connecting with that portal. We know the stories that have been passed down through the centuries––that the water in wells turns to wine at midnight on Christmas Eve and that magic lights twinkle at the deepest depths of those wells, that even rivers run with wine at the midnight hour, and that animals are given the power of speech and that they kneel in their barns in the cold night air, in reverence to the divine child that enters our common world. Those who set out to prove the magic are usually punished for doing so and so we do well to leave well enough alone. If the animals are kneeling and speaking, so be it. There is magic more readily available and apparent in the tree, in the lights, in the incense and candles, the cookies and songs we taste and sing just at this time of year.

But we try so hard to make Christmas perfect that sometimes it exhausts us. I think this is because we are so disconnected from the magic, the ceremony, of the everyday. We try to do it all now, in this one magical night, because it is the granddaddy of them all. But one of the most magical things about Christmas is that it comes whether we are ready for it or not. There is another old text, that of a Christmas play from Cornwall that is performed by morris dancers now all over the world. Father Christmas is one of the main players, and he enters, always, with the same words: Here comes I, Old Father Christmas; Welcome or welcome not.

Apparently, even in ancient times in Cornwall, Christmas would come upon us too quickly. A good thing to keep in mind today. The presents may not be all wrapped and the decorations may not be all up and the cards may not be all written and sent… but Christmas comes in its own time, and the magic is that we are swept along into it, and we are powerless in its wake. We are taken up in its quiet procession, and we either fight it or go along with it. If we go along with it, we let go of all that is not perfect and accept it for what it is: A quiet night, full of magic real or imagined. And what is the difference? What does it matter? “Now it is Christmas again.” Certainly there will be some quiet time for you tonight, time when you will sit and realize that all you did not get to do is not done but it’s okay, still it is Christmas. Its time is just beginning. Allow yourself to be immersed in it. Enjoy the magic.

 

Image: Glade Jul by Viggo Johansen. Oil on canvas, 1891. [Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons.] Johansen was a painter from Denmark, not far from Sweden, and certainly he knew a bit about “Nu är Det Jul Igen.”

 

 

Imbolc & Candlemas Eve

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The wheel of the year is in constant motion, of course, turning always, and as we enter February we pass to the next seasonal spoke: Winter is still firmly in charge, but days are lengthening (and have been since late December) and it becomes apparent that spring, with all its lively stirrings, cannot be that far away. And in traditional reckoning of time, it is Imbolc, a Celtic cross-quarter day, that marks the beginning of those stirrings on this first day of the second month.

With Imbolc, we are now very close to the halfway point between the Winter Solstice of December and the Vernal Equinox of March. Beneath the ground and in the trees already there are signs of change: The buds of this summer’s leaves slowly grow fatter, roots begin to spread. The trees are not the only living things beginning to stir; animals are, too. The name Imbolc is derived from the word Oimelc, which comes from the Gaelic for ewe’s milk, for lactating sheep are now feeding the first lambs of the season. As milk flows, so soon will streams and rivers in colder climes, and once the ice of winter begins to melt, there’s no stopping the pull of life that begins to stream forth. And so even in these cold wintry days, we know that renewal is not far away. This is the spirit of Imbolc, and the value of Imbolc: knowing that warmth is returning.

The day is heavily infused in Celtic lore. The traditions of Imbolc are, for the most part, simple, quiet ones. Most prevalent in olden times was the making of a dolly from a sheaf of corn or wheat and laying it to rest in a bed, and there were divinations to be made from the ashes in the hearth. And as the year shifts from winter to spring, so does the Celtic earth goddess shift from crone to young virgin in the form of the goddess Brighid. The renewal of the goddess goes hand in hand with the renewal of the year.

The Church made the First of February the Feast of St. Brigid, who bridges us from winter to spring. (It is often called St. Brigit’s Day, but Brigid is more proper, and the pronunciation is distinctly Celtic: brigg-id or bree-id.) St. Brigid is sacred to Ireland and second there only to St. Patrick, whose day will come later this spring. She was said to have cared for Mary’s cows, and she was there to help at the birth of Jesus. Hence Brigid is known as Christ’s Milkmaid, and here is that connection to Oimelc. It is traditional today to make a St. Brigid’s cross, which looks a bit like a four-spoked wheel, out of rushes or reeds. It is also traditional to leave an oat cake and butter on a windowsill for St. Brigid on her day, for she is more likely then to visit your home and bless the people and animals who live there.

Imbolc, being an old Celtic holiday, became the basis for an important Christian holiday, Candlemas, which comes tomorrow. Candlemas Eve, however, has its own importance, for Candlemas traditionally marks the end of the Christmas season in the Church, and even in homes, it is on this night that all vestiges of the Yuletide celebrations must be removed.

If you can’t imagine living with plastic snowmen and sparkly ornaments so far into the new year, keep in mind that in earlier times (well into the 20th century), Christmas decorations consisted of things of the natural world: holly and ivy and mistletoe and other greenery. Remember also that the decorations went up on Christmas Eve, not earlier. So it was pretty easy to live with these festive things in your home through Candlemas, and they certainly brought as much joy to a home as any of our contemporary decorations do now. While the major festivities of Christmas ended with Epiphany, the spirit of the season remained and lingered and kept folks company for these forty wintry days. But it was considered bad luck to keep these things about the house any longer than Candlemas. Our old reliable 17th century Book of Days poet Robert Herrick describes the significance of the day in his poem “Ceremony Upon Candlemas Eve”:

Down with the rosemary, and so
Down with the bays and misletoe ;
Down with the holly, ivy, all,
Wherewith ye dress’d the Christmas Hall :
That so the superstitious find
No one least branch there left behind :
For look, how many leaves there be
Neglected, there (maids, trust to me)
So many goblins you shall see.

The shift in our celebration of Christmas will probably always perplex me. How we took a celebration that traditionally begins on the solstice and runs through Candlemas and made it into a fourth quarter corporate event that begins in stores in September and makes people weary of its presence by Christmas Day is, I think, a great disservice to us all. In our home we follow the old ways as closely as we can. We may seem out of step with the rest of the world, but the rest of the world is not necessarily where we want to be, anyway. Home is a refuge for us and for sacred ceremony, and we rather like it that way. And so with Candlemas we will say farewell to the tree and to the wreath of bay upon the door. We’ll pack up the ornaments, and the tree will be laid to rest in a quiet corner of the garden. Next winter, at the solstice, we’ll use that same tree, dried over the course of the year, to fuel our solstice fire. And with Candlemas, we’ll shift our view from one of winter to one where the renewal of spring is close at hand.

Image: Snowdrops at the Wilkins Family gravesite at Pioneer Cemetery, Eugene, Oregon. Particularly fitting, for the Snowdrop, beginning to bloom now in many places, is an ancient symbol of Imbolc. Photograph by Convivio pal Paula Marie Gourley.

 

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